Entries by Kate Motaung

How to Help Children of Divorce: Advice from a Christian Counselor in Huntington Beach, CA

Children of divorce may require more attention, encouragement, and support. Although the rate of divorce has been declining over the past two decades, at least 40% of first-time marriages end in divorce. The rate increases in subsequent marriages. You can help your children find their footing, adapt, and thrive by working together, providing stability, teaching […]

7 Successful Aging Secrets of Happy People

The phrase “successful aging” can be fraught with misunderstanding and lower self-esteem in geriatric populations. However, it aligns with positive psychology. This is focused on mental health factors that contribute to longevity and overall well-being. Research indicates that aging well (in healthful ways) correlates with aging happily. In other words, happy people have discovered the […]

What You Should Know About Chronic Anxiety

Worry, anxiety, and fear are hallmarks of chronic anxiety. People with chronic anxiety feel stuck in the fight or flight response (or the freeze response). They become overwhelmed and anxious disproportionately to the situation. This fear can lead to panic attacks and other conditions. Do you have chronic anxiety? Professional treatment is available. What is […]

Helicopter Parenting: Is it Helpful, Harmful, or Avoidable?

🎧 Listen to this article You’ve probably heard the term helicopter parenting thrown around in parenting circles. The phrase conveys a mental image of a parent hovering over a small child who’s just trying to play freely. The phrase might also conjure images of a college student whose parent still plays an interventionist role in […]

Helping Siblings Get Along When Insecure Attachment Might Be The Root Cause

Sibling relationships are some of the longest-lasting connections in a person’s life. For most kids, these relationships are a rollercoaster. They share bedrooms, toys, secrets, and sometimes even clothes, but they also share tension, competition, and misunderstandings. One minute, they’re giggling over an inside joke, and the next, they’re fighting over who gets the last […]

Traits of a Highly Sensitive Child and How to Care for Them

Children often experience big emotions, and it is typically normal. Some children, however, feel they live in a state of extreme emotion all the time and are more easily triggered by their environment. When this happens, you may find yourself wondering if your child’s reactions are normal or if you have a highly sensitive child. […]